A band forms, they release a few songs/demos, play a few shows, then break away or go on a hiatus, all within a short time span. There is no real way to prevent this sad yet common thing from happening so all that we can do is cherish their music and enjoy it while we still have them. That is how I learned to appreciate bands within my scene because bands like these are always a once in a lifetime experience. A small grain of sand on a beach. One of the most recent acts to join the "short-lived" category is none other than JudgeMyHeart.

JudgeMyHeart was a short-lived screamo band founded and based in Rancho Cucamonga, California. Since their formation in May 2022, they would proceed to record and upload a handful of demos on Youtube and Soundcloud before making their first official release for "Over" on all streaming platforms. Their original line up consisted of 4 members with one of them being a female vocalist but then reduced to being a trio towards their final few months. They played a show in Highland on June 3rd, 2023 before going on hiatus for about a month before they continued to play a few more shows. They would play their final show on August 7th and would break up due to personal drama surrounding the band. Members of the band would go on to play in So Concerned and No Bling.
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JudgeMyHeart playing a show w/ their ex-vocalist |
1. 12-24-19
2. Calm
3. I had a dream that I was drowning as the sea froze over me
4. Untitled (it’s the closest I can get - three song demo)
5. Calm (it’s the closest I can get - three song demo)
6. I gave you all I had (it’s the closest I can get - three song demo)
7. long days, no end
8. a letter you can no longer read
9. What's on your mind?
10. Over
11. Everyday
12. David's World
13. I watched you slip away
14. The church raised money in the memory of you
15. I gave you all I had
1. Untitled
2. Calm
3. I gave you all I had
1. Over
1. Everyday
2. David's World
3. I watched you slip away
4. The church raised money in the memory of you
5. I gave you all I had
1. Untitled #1
1. We were all just fucking ants
(Note: This is not in chronological order tho I tried)
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JudgeMyHeart @ The Haven, Pomona (5/19/2023) |
During their final month, I managed to get to see them live at a venue called The Haven in Pomona during an event called "Fuzzriot Fest" along with 5 other bands that day. I got to meet and talk to other SoCal DIY acts (Aren't We Amphibians, Me+You, and Lagrimas) along with two other bands from Jersey (Bulletproof Backpack and Catalyst.) Although I never got a chance to speak to the members of JMH the day of, I did eventually get to interview one of the band members a mere day before their last show. Below is the interview I had with David via the band's Insta DMs.
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Me - May I know who I am speaking to?
David - This is David
Me - Tell me about JudgeMyHeart and how it started.
David - So in May 2022 I posted a demo on SoundCloud and Spencer slid up and he wanted to jam and one day super last minute he wanted to jam after school so we jammed in our ex singers garage and we clicked pretty quickly it felt very natural and it wasn’t till the next jam sesh that we added Xavier and that’s when the band really felt like complete at first.
It’s funny bc after the first jam, Spencer got us a spot on Liz’s bday show and we had a week to prepare for that as we literally just formed & it was so bad lol
Me - Lol, i mean it WAS your guys' first show so it obv wont be the best. What were some of your inspirations for your guys' sound?
David - For me Title Fight, iwrotehaikus and Blink-182. I’ll ask Spencer & Xavier though I know we all share title fight as an inspiration. (note: the next messages were later added) Xavier said youth novel, Blair & just the scene in general. Spencer said dag nasty, marginal man, and Elvis Costello.
Me - I remember a few months ago, you had your original main vocalist (i forgot her name tho) left the band then later saw a vague insta story about her. Idk if it is okay for me to ask about what happened behind the scenes but I am a bit curious. (you don't have to answer btw)
David - Yeah I’m sorry it’s just too much personal stuff to get into.
Me - that's alright, I understand that. Do you or anyone else plan to do anything after JMH? also I apologize for any uncomfortable vibes with that question.
David - Oh no you’re okay if I were you I’d wanna know too lol. But yeah I plan on starting a side project with some friends from Widowdusk, Spencer is in No Bling and Xavier plans on a side project with his homies as well.
Me - Oh cool! I'm pretty sure fans of JMH will be interested in hearing what the future holds for them. other than "Over" do you plan to post other JMH songs on streaming services?
David - Yes we do plan on releasing more after our haitus.
Me - are there any specific projects that you want to shout out or things to promote?
David - Nope, just thanks to everyone that cares about anything we do.
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This hiatus may take weeks, months, or even years, but however long it takes, JudgeMyHeart will once again return to the scene. When exactly? I guess we'll never know. While this certainly wont be the last we hear from them, the only thing that we can do now is wait until they decide that it's the right time to come back together.
August 10, 2023 Update: JudgeMyHeart later retured from their hiatus which lasted about a few weeks before playing another show on July 14th with other notable Socal bands within the scene including herlovebeheadsdaisies from Texas. They would play their final show on August 7th with So Concerned, letsmakenothinghappen, we'rethecurrency, OneWayMirror, and Widowdusk before announcing on their Instagram that they will be no longer performing as a band along with a new EP. (it will be here when released.)
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Announcement Story |
JudgeMyHeart was honestly the main inspiration for wanting to write this blog in the first place. Seeing local bands, documenting, and getting to actually talk to them in real time is nothing but a blessing to me. It gives you the joy of discovering something new and wanting to learn more about who they are/were, what they do, their inspirations, etc. I highly recommend them as, to me, they will always have a special place in my heart for the Socal Underground scene.
If you are an artist/apart of a band and want me to interview you or if there are any artists from the SouthWest US that you would like for write about then be sure to message me on my socials or leave a comment below the post!